Today, I was a bad parent...

Today, I was a bad parent.
My kids ate greasy gas station pizza for lunch.
They ran around like wild animals at the store.
I bought them sugar filled drinks at the checkout and candy at the next store.

Today, I was a bad parent.
I slept in longer than my kids.
I let them skip baths for the third (or is it fourth?) day in a row.
Nobody brushed their teeth today.

Today, I was a bad parent.
I let my kids wear the same clothes as yesterday.
They spent all day in front of the TV.
I sleepervised from the couch during Spongebob.

Today, I was a bad parent.
I got too mad.
I yelled too much.
I hurt my child, because I got overwhelmed.

Today, I wasn't perfect, and tomorrow I won't be either.
Today, I apologized to my child and forgave myself, as well.
Today, I did the best I could and tomorrow I will, too!

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12 Things I Want My Boys to Know When They Grow Up

Two thirds of my children are currently little boys who will grow into men one day.  For quite a few years, I was only a mother of boys.  My daughter, Luna's, birth last year made me a mother of boys and a baby girl.

As my boys grow older, I find myself thinking about all the things I want them to know, believe, or be capable of doing when they leave the nest.  Society has such warped views for men and masculinity.  I hope my two sons grow up to be who they are not a reflection of what society wants them to be.

Here are just a few things I want my boys to know before they leave the nest, in no particular order:

  1. Fathers are just important as mothers and their role should be as valued and as active.
  2. Men are not dumb dimwitted or irrelevant in marriage, life, or parenthood
  3. Value your role, value yourself, and find someone who will do the same.  
  4. How to cook and manage money.   Men can clean the house too. They can do just as good of a job and just as many chores. Housework is not just the wife, mom, or woman's responsibility.
  5. Being a good person, being a good husband, and being a good father is more important and more valuable than conforming to warped societal views on what is masculine and what is appropriate for a man to do. 
  6. Sometimes you have to sacrifice money for family, because family is more important. 
  7. It's okay to be angry. It's okay to be sad. It's okay to have feelings. 
  8. Respect yourself. Respect your significant other. Expect them to do the same. 
  9. Find a woman who is with you because she wants to be in not because she needs to be; someone who is independent and able to take care of herself and does not need or use you for your money or your possessions but sees the value of you as a person. 
  10. Know your self-worth. 
  11. In your marriage or relationship, it's okay to walk away and take a break but never give up if there's hope for future. A good marriage and a good love is based on two people's willingness to fight for each other and for their life together.
  12. Housework and child rearing is not just for women. 
What are some things you hope your children will leave the nest knowing?

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4 Step Guide to Choosing Your Next Vehicle

I can't be the only person to say this but I hate car shopping. Of course I like getting a new vehicle. I like the end result. I hate the whole process though. It's exhausting and almost enough to put me off of getting a new vehicle altogether.. 

And this is the truth considering I was driving a 98 Buick LeSabre that was barely reliable. Scratch that it definitely was not reliable. We paid $700 for it for crying out loud!

I took it to get new tires and they looked at me like I was crazy as they listed all the things they saw that were wrong with it and suggested I actually don't get tires.  Okay, so I guess it was time to get a new vehicle.

You see I also hate to spend money, and this is a pretty big expense. So the first thing you need to do when buying a new vehicle is to figure out what you're gonna get. Sounds easy right?

Step 1: Browse.  See what's out there.

First thing you should do is browse online for a little bit. But don't let yourself get all caught up in browsing and wasting time.  Just see what's our there.  Browsing is good because you might come across a few vehicles or options that you didn't know about and it will help you get an idea of what you might want. 

Step 2: Decide on your must have features.  Narrow it down. 

Now that you've looked at dozens or hundreds (or more) vehicles and vehicle options, you should have some kind of idea of what you want.  Maybe it's something as simple and broad as "an SUV" or maybe your needs are more specific.  I think the more specific you can be, the better.  For me that meant I wanted:
  • AWD or 4WD
  • Leather interior
  • SUV or crossover (would consider a van though)
  • Third row or optional third row seating
  • Gas mileage at 22MPG or higher
And other options (like Hybrid) I checked and unchecked just to see what I could find.

Step 3: Plug your needs into a search engine.

Once you've decided on the options then you can put these options into various search engines, my favorite being used car websites (such as AutoTrader, UsedCars.com, etc).  If you know what you must have in your next vehicle and you plug those options in, it'll eliminate the stress of sifting through all the ads for vehicles you don't want or that don't meet your needs.  Like I said, the more specific you can be the better!

Step 4: Find your perfect ride!

Now that you've narrowed down your listings, you've hopefully found one or more options of your ideal vehicle and can locate one within a reasonable distance from you.  Thanks to my specifications, I ended up with a Toyota Highlander Hybrid (Limted & 4WD).  I did have to drive 2.5 hours to look at it and then back again to purchase it, but it was well worth it!

What would you add to this list, if anything?  What was the last vehicle your purchased?  Was it love or do you wish you would have chosen something else?
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20 DIY Baby Shower Gifts

Now that finals are over and my kids are almost out for the summer, I'm wondering...

Am I the only person that has been invited to a million baby showers between February and July, not counting the women I know who are pregnant and not having a shower?

I guess part of that has to do with all the mothering-related groups that I'm a part of and the fact that everyone I knew in high school is currently in their twenties and having babies.

I don't mind.  I love baby showers!  I love babies (usually).

Really, though, most (if not all) of these DIY baby shower gift ideas totally trump most of the gifts I've ever given!  They're double cool because they're homemade and unique!

Nursing, Teething, & Babywearing Necklaces

1. T-Shirt Yarn Nursing Necklace from Wayfarer Homemaker

2. Crochet Nursing Necklace from Repeat Crafter Me

3. Silicone Nursing Necklace from Chaos Parade

4. Fabric Nursing Necklace from How Does She?

5. Make You Own Amber Teething Necklace from Make Sew Baby

6. Allspice Teething Necklace from Montana Solar Creations


7. DIY Stackable Rings for Baby from Domesticesq

8. B&W Baby Rattle from Lis Gillet

9. Activity Mat/Gym from Thoughts & Thimbles

10. Baby Butterfly Soft Toy from Sew Mama Sew

11. Pentagon Fabric Ball Tutorial from And Other Silly Things

12. How to Make Cloth Books from Cloth Books for Baby

Diaper Cakes & Related

13. Diaper Babies from Frugal Fanatic

14. Diaper Wreath from The Mandatory Mooch

15. Basic Diaper Cake (Easily Customized) from Susie Stamp A Lot

16. Diaper Bouquet from Frugal Fanatic


17. DIY Baby Bibs from Alice & Lois

18. DIY Burp Cloths from Sew She Sews

19. Baby K'Tan Carrier from Lobolita

20. DIY Pacifier Clips from Make It & Love It

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